Showing posts with label Education. Show all posts
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16 Sept 2017

Scientific Signal that proves ,,YOU ARE FALLING IN LOVE.


Science says that the body has some pretty sneaky ways of tipping an individual off when it comes to love.

From staring at the person of interest, to think about them all the time, the body lets of little signs that a person is in love (Photo: Pixabay)
Being in love is one of the best feelings ever. While some just find their partner, and know that they are destined to spend their lives together, there are yet others who are never sure if it is love or just mere infatuation.
However, fear not, the body has some pretty sneaky ways of tipping an individual off when it comes to love by telling them whether the feelings they have for an individual are more than just a passing phase.

Here are the tell-tale signs that in all probability, you are in love.

Can’t stop staring at him/her:
If your partner catches you quite often staring at them with no reason at all, in all probability, you are head over heels in love. Eye contact indicates that you are fixated on something, so if your eyes meet and get fixed on yor partner’s, you may just be falling in love.

Studies also find that couples who lock eyes report feeling a stronger romantic connection than those who don't.
Feel like you're high:
you feel completely out of your mind. Astudy conducted at the Kinsey Institute found that the brain of a person falling in love looks the same as the brain of a person who has taken cocaine. Dopamine, which is released in both instances, is responsible for that feeling.
Always think about them:
Whatever you do, your thoughts just go back to them. This is because the brain releases phenylethylamine, or the “love drug”. The hormone creates the feeling of infatuation with your partner.
Interestingly, phenylethylamine is also found in chocolate, which may explain why many people are addicted to it.

Their happiness becomes more important:
A concept immortalised by numerous sad, romantic songs, but if you find that someone's happiness becomes really important to you then you're falling for them. According to research, that is a sign of a healthy relationship, indicating your willingness to go out of your way to make your partner’s life happier.
So-called “compassionate love” can be one of the biggest signs of a healthy relationship, according to research. This means that you're willing to go out of your way to make your partner's life easier and happier.

Stressed a lot:
You feel stressed a lot. Being in love often causes your brain to release the stress hormone cortisol, which can lead you to feel the heat.
You don't feel pain as strongly: Suddenly, even falling down on the streets do not hurt that more. It is a sign you are in love. A study conducted by the Stanford University School of Medicine had participants stare at a photo of someone they loved and found that act could reduce moderate pain by up to 40%, and reduced severe pain by up to 15%.
Open to trying new things: If you are consistently trying new things that your partner enjoys, you may have been bitten by the love bug. A study suggests that people who claim to be in love often had varied interest and personality traits after those relationships.
Your heart rate synchronizes with theirs: A study shows that people who are in love usually have a heart beat that is synchronised. A study conducted by the University of California, Davis, suggests that couples' hearts begin to beat at the same rate when they fall in love.
Gross stuff do not gross you out:
A study by the University of Groningen in the Netherlands found that feelings of sexual arousal can override feelings of being grossed out.
Sweat is a constant companion: Study found that falling in love can cause you to feel sick and display physical symptoms similar to that of anxiety or stress, like sweat.
Although it passes with comfort level increasing, it may be a good idea to carry around an extra hanky, just to be safe.


7 Sept 2017

Valuable HABITS

1. Always remember, 'small bricks build big houses.'


You cannot reach from one place to another directly; you have to take many small steps which will ultimately help you to reach the final destination.
Being an efficient team player is all about knowing how your small contribution leads the group near the success of a larger goal. Learn the art of cutting down big goals into small ones, actionable tasks.
To have intellectual strength in any endeavor, you have to learn the art of moving back and learning both the big picture and the tiny steps that will bring that concept to life.
If you are only centered on the big picture, you'll always live in the clouds, and get baffled because nothing is actionable. Conversely, if you are only concentrated on the tiny steps, you'll never see the big picture--and you'll get frustrated as you feel like you're rotating your wheels (which you are).
You have to understand both the things. Always, start small, but remember the big thing you are developing at the same time. That balance takes practice.



2. Visualise everything in your head | Rehearse success.


Make it a habit, every time you're trying to perform a tough task, imagine yourself doing it amazingly by taking small steps at a time. Feel the success, imagine if you get a chance to speak after the success, what words you're going to utter? Rehearse everything inside your head.
When I was a kid, I had appalling visions. I used to recall a lot about what I would do if a thief ever came into our house. One night, I detected a loud sound underneath when everybody was asleep, and I thought the time had finally come. I was 7.
I remember looking round my place for a protection and, in my head, going over my method over and over again, I would disappear behind the door, wait until they looked their head in, and then WAM!
It was all very exciting. But, humor aside, this is part of the method when it comes to keeping a clear head in moments of stress (or battle).
You have to give a lot of time exercising scenarios ahead of time, so that, when the time of truth presents itself, you are ready to give your best shot.
3. Always use "4 x 4 x 4" method to control your anxiety.


Inhale for four seconds.
Exhale for four seconds.
Rehearse for four minutes.
It's no different than a meditation respiratory exercise. The idea is simple: Soothe your mind. Every great leader understands not to make choices in the heat of the time, and that works for both business and war.
Whenever you feel stressed, it's all about taking a while to check in with yourself, and the easiest technique to do this is to count your breath.
4. Do not react, respond. - Buddha.


The glass can be half empty or half full. It depends on you to choose which way you want to see something. People who are mentally tough have a trick for always recognizing the positive.
Why? Because they appreciate seeing the cynical won't get them where they want to be any quicker. Reframing the circumstances in a positive light isn't just a "feel good" practice, but it's an incredibly useful way to move yourself and the current state in the direction of your choice.
Leaders, particularly, know that reframing to find the positive is crucial for keeping people motivated and occupied. And if you can learn how to reframe to the active, your patience and tolerance for hindrances and difficulties will increase exponentially.
5. Learn the art of celebrating 'small victories.'


People who have the strength to struggle and fight and struggle have an even greater talent to enjoy the journey. They can go so high, and so far because they are inspired with themselves along the path. They observe the small stuff, instead of always saying "I'm not there still."
At some point, "I'm not there still" just gives you a feel like you'll never get "there." You will feel the contrast of motivated. You will feel defeated. Don't be scared to take a while and see where you are on the path.

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